29 Weeks!

How far along? 29 Weeks

My babies are the size of: Butternut Squash

Net weight gain:  I gained 5 1/2 pounds in two weeks so I am finally at 0 pounds gained, but back at my pre-pregnancy weight. A total of 10 pounds gained back.

Maternity clothes: Yes

Sleep: Waking up to pee, a lot. Still have hip pain 😦 Oh and its 4:18am and I’m writing a blog, so…..not so good lol

Best Moment this week: SA

Miss Anything: Beer and sleeping on my tummy!

Movement: Yes, in fact one of them has the hiccups right now!

Food Cravings: Nothing really right now

Anything making you queasy or sick: Insane heartburn & the naseau has returned – not as bad as my first trimester but definitely back

Gender:  B&G

Labor Signs: Cervix is funneling, on mandatory bed rest for the time being. I feel like I am having braxton hicks contractions ALL THE TIME! Sometimes I will have them within 10 minutes of each other and then they will stop for hours, they’re SO annoying!!!! What is weird is I get them at night when I am sleeping – I will wake up to pee and as I fall back asleep will have them, I don’t know if it is from the change in movement from sleeping to getting up or what but either way its super annoying and I am hoping it doesn’t mean real labor is coming soon.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy, almost all the time!

Weekly Wisdom: Be happy!

Looking forward to: Seeing the babies Wednesday & getting our flooring replaced this week!! The baby shower is a week from today and I am so EXCITED!!!!!!!!!

We are almost there, a few more weeks (hopefully) and we will be holding our loves. I can’t believe we are one week away from our baby shower, I have been anticipating this for MONTHS! When we had our last ultra sound the perinatologist gave me labs to get drawn to find out if I have a clotting disorder. I’m super anxious to find out what the results are for many reason, but the main reason would be that it would have been the cause of Rohen’s death. No more saying it was a “freak accident” – there is a reason to it, and it could have been prevented, and more importantly can be prevented in the future. Our baby girl is starting to show similar signs of growth issues (no where near as severe) but she has been officially diagnosed with IUGR (Intrauterine Growth Restriction) which basically means she falls below the 10% for growth (she was at 8.5% almost two weeks ago, she will be measured again Wednesday) I can’t lie, this scares the living shit out of me. Even though my doctor has reassured me many times that she is going to be OK, I can’t help but fear we will go to an ultra sound and find no heart beat. Obviously it is a lot different because I can feel her & she is viable at this point (with excellent survival odds as well) but it doesn’t stop me from being so worried about her. I am also scared about having a clotting disorder – does that mean at any point I could throw a clot and it could kill either baby? Sometimes I feel like they’d be safer if we just took them out, I hate it that the human body can be so miraculous and yet fail in so many ways as well. I just want to get past our baby shower and then really focus on their arrival. We haven’t bought much for them and now it feels silly because what if our baby shower doesn’t happen because they decide to take them out at our next appt…something we didn’t think about even being an issue. I am hanging on to hope that we will make it past 31 weeks and really aiming for 34 weeks – anything further than 34 would be incredible. Happy thoughts everyone, we want these cuties to keep cooking!! I did find out at my last OBGYN appointment that our doctor most likely won’t be delivering them (unless they make it past 36/37 weeks). I am 100% in agreement with this decision mainly because even if they aren’t coming until 35 weeks, Harper is measuring small and may need more care, because of this we are going to deliver at a different hospital that has a higher acuity NICU. I was worried about delivering at our original hospital because I thought there would be a chance of Elliott and I staying and Harper being transferred and I really didn’t want to deal with that. I want to be near my babies the entire time. The great news is Devan has an old customer from when she managed a Cigar Store that is a neonatal doctor there and after talking with him he promised us VIP treatment.

Devan’s best friend Brielle is coming over tonight to get the final touches of the baby shower in order. Tomorrow morning the two of them are going to be running around pretty much all day – getting the cribs, dresser, ordering the cakes & lunch meat platters, buying the alcohol & other beverages and all of the game prizes and props for the shower. I am bummed I can’t go but so grateful for Brielle and her willingness to help us with our baby shower. A lot of our friends are really pulling together to help us out and we are so happy. Thank you all for everything you have done and will do next Saturday, we love you!

Onto some more exciting news…we got the bedding fabric and Elliott’s carseat in the mail!! After the carpet is fully installed on Wednesday we can set their room up and have it ready to put all the stuff we get from the baby shower in it! I am overjoyed!!!!

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Devan is going to make them blankies with the fabric and then we will be using solids to make the rest of their crib bedding, I am SO excited for the final product!! Those are some sick deer right? Perfect for the woodland theme we chose!

Yesterday morning I woke up to a Facebook message from a friend saying “gays can get married in AZ now” — I looked it up and sure as shit, the marriage ban was struck down by a judge – and furthermore there will be NO appeals. I went to bed single in the state of Arizona and woke up married – how great is that? I’m so glad that we got married in January in New Mexico otherwise we’d have to rush to a courthouse to get married now so Devan could be on the birth certificates. I actually spoke with a lawyer already and asked her what we needed to do to make sure Devan had legal rights and she told me that Arizona already has parent/parent birth certificates and that she thinks we should be able to just bring our marriage license to the hospital with us and Devan can sign it! How can it all of a sudden be THIS EASY?!! No complaints her, and perfect timing Arizona.

I suppose that is it for now, more updates to come next week and hopefully good ones about my test results!!


16 thoughts on “29 Weeks!

  1. Emz says:

    Gosh, what a lot to think snd worry about. Fingers crossed you make it to 34 or beyond…and dont go too nutty with the bed rest in the meantime. And yay for another legal marriage state!

  2. Amy M. says:

    I was actually thinking about you last night as I was trying to fall asleep, and hoping you would post soon lol. Sorry that little Harper is starting to fall a bit behind, but I’m glad the Dr is certain that she’s ok. It’s so hard when you’re so worried about something they tell you, even when they swear everything’s fine. Fingers crossed they stay in a few more weeks!! Good that you’ll be able to go to a hospital where she can get better care if she needs it too, and where you can all be together. And yay for everything else that’s going on!!! So much excitement for you right now!!

  3. mamaetmaman says:

    I hope you’re managing to find ways to not go crazy on bedrest. Grow Harper grow! I love those textiles. Can’t wait to see pictures of the babies room once it’s all set up. Have a blast at your shower, and I hope your ultrasound goes great.

  4. spiteorflight says:

    I have two clotting factors that caused my first two losses, and I suspect the IUGR in my last (and only successful) pregnancy. Technically he never dropped below 11%, but all the doctors classified him as IUGR anyway.

    Pregnancy is already a hyper-coagulable state for people without clotting issues, so (and I don’t want to scare you, just sharing what I know) people with clotting issues are at a much higher risk of dangerous clots. Are you taking anything like baby aspirin or blood thinner? If your tests come back positive, push your docs to prescribe you both, it will protect all three of you.

    Also, if you do have a clotting factor, the most dangerous time for you is actually the 6-8 weeks postpartum so don’t be surprised if they want you on blood thinner the whole time.

    I hope your tests are negative, and it’s not one more thing you need to worry about. And congratulations on waking up a legally married woman!!

      • spiteorflight says:

        It wouldn’t, honestly. It doesn’t cross the placenta, so it’s really for your protection. The baby aspirin you’re already taking does cross the placenta, so that is supposed to help the babies.

  5. myhopejar says:

    I’m so freaking happy that the gay marriage ban has been struck down! This is such great news for you and Devan and your babies, and for all gay couples living in Arizona! I will be sending you prayers for your blood test results this week. Praying constantly for Harper and that they stay put until 34 weeks! And I really hope you make it to your shower this weekend. I just had my shower which I’ll post about in a few days once I have a chance to go through all the photos my sister in-law and friends took, but it really was such a wonderful day to celebrate with friends and family and I really hope you get to have your day too!

  6. Nicole Renea says:

    Our state of Virginia is now legal for same-sex marriage too! How exciting huh?! Good luck with all the testing and hope you have a wonderful baby shower! Hugs and loves from VA! 🙂

  7. Amy M. says:

    Just looking back at this post again and thinking of you guys. Seems like it’s been forever since you posted anything and I’ve been very worried about all of you!! Hope that all is well with you and the babies!!! I think of you often!!

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